Really. It was December and I didn't even gave a damn to stop by to wish all the wish what have to be said eventually this time of the year. I ain't sendin' xmas or new year texts to anybody this year. FAKE! A bit, i guess. If ya really wanna wish all the best to a person then ya will manage your life ya will get in touch with them and say it in person. Mosty.
How long can a friendship last? Is there that "best before" label on all of 'em? And what even makes you realise this a friendship you can call it genuine? As I left for Great Britian I have loosen my interest in tons of people. I picked people who can stay on my friend-list and who goes off by keeping an eye on who contacts me, and how often. Seems like a nice and fair enough plan, ye ye.... but I came home, I hugged my ex-bestie who neither called or wrote me a word and I couldn't be mad for longer then couple of days, then I met her again and I just felt it. She has been a part of my life for a long time and we did things I am definitely sure I would have never done with somebody else, so she is just indeedly important for me. I am at the mall shopping - I feel excited 'bout my new stuff, but if I were shopping with her, it would be super exciting and we would laugh our asses out! I am out partying with my people - I feel great, but if she was there it would be a blast, no doubt! (Notice: i ain't turning gay, no worries guys). So, it's like a shut-up-mind-heart-is-just-right-this-time situation. Hope, I won't fall. Hope, she won't let me.
Girly stuff done, now let's have take a look at the boys. Still friendship, don't get too excited.
On new years eve a guy told me such a thing as friendship between a male and female does not excist. I replied: "Bullshit!" Lately I was covicted I showed the word there is a good and precious friendship between two opoosite sexes. One of the top of my besties list was that guy. I never thought of him like THAT. Why would have I? We have been friend for a while now. Good friends. Boy and girl. Then he hit on me. I know. But why? "You ruind my...... ?" What exactly should I call it? Faith? My faith in this fake illusion?
The guy from the New Year's party who told me that a straight guy cant have a girl friend, well to be honest I while ago I had a damn huge thing for him. Now we are "dudes", no friends. I wish. He is an interesting person, whom I still don't know well enough after those time we spent together.
I have a lot of male dudes, fellas I can call 'em whatever but friends. Why? Because they would hook up with me as soon as I would let 'em. These are no friends. I still love 'em though. Anyway:
IS THERE A FRIENDSHIP BETWEEN A GIRL AND A BOY?
Answers please....
by chilykee
1 comment:
I truly believe that a friendship between opposite sexes can exist. Or maybe I just wanna believe, cause to be honest, I can't remember any friendship like that right now :S I remember just those fake ones when a guy falls in love with a girl but he's scared to tell her so he behaves like the best friend though he wanna be smth moreee.. this usually ends with girl's "no" and boy's broken heart. Well, they get over that eventually but they never can be as good friend as they used to be. I H.A.T.E. this. But it's usually like that. Haha, the funny thing is that it's usually the boy whose heart gets broken. Maybe it's because we, girs, never wanna be (just) friends with someone we're in love with. It's not good enough for us. So we take all or nothing.
But uhm, I still believe that this kind of friendship can exist ;) Yeah, I'm optimistic.. Or naive??
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